Pastor Jen Hoffman Email: firstname.lastname@example.orgWe find ourselves deep in a time of change. This pandemic, contrary to our deepest wishes, will not just disappear. And on some levels, it will, perhaps forever, change many things about our daily lives. This includes our life together as a church. Major changes are a part of the life cycle. They have been happening since the very beginning of time and will continue to happen. Often we are able to look, in retrospect, at these changes and find the good in them, but it is good that seldom feels “good” to those who find themselves in the middle of them. Richard Rohr, a reflective theologian, priest, and spiritual advisor to many recently wrote a devotion called “Wisdom in Times of Crisis: Change is Inevitable”. I am including some of his words here because I find them helpful as I continue to think through and address the changes surrounding us in 2020. May they be helpful for you, too.
“The word change normally refers to new beginnings. But the mystery of transformation more often happens not when something new begins, but when something old falls apart. The pain of something old falling apart—chaos—invites the soul to listen at a deeper level, and sometimes forces the soul to go to a new place. Most of us would never go to new places in any other way. The mystics use many words to describe this chaos: fire, dark night, death, emptiness, abandonment, trial, the Evil One. Whatever it is, it does not feel good and it does not feel like God.
We will normally do anything to keep the old thing from falling apart, yet this is when we need patience and guidance, and the freedom to let go instead of tightening our controls and certitudes. Perhaps Jesus is describing just this phenomenon when he says, “It is a narrow gate and a hard road that leads to life, and only a few find it” (Matthew 7:14). Not accidentally, he mentions this narrow road right after teaching the Golden Rule. He knows how much letting go it takes to “treat others as you would like them to treat you” (Matthew 7:12).
While change can force a transformation, spiritual transformation always includes a disconcerting reorientation. It can either help people to find new meaning or it can force people to close down and slowly turn bitter. The difference is determined precisely by the quality of our inner life, our practices, and our spirituality. Change happens, but transformation is always a process of letting go, living in the confusing, shadowy space for a while. Eventually, we are spit up on a new and unexpected shore. You can see why Jonah in the belly of the whale is such an important symbol for many Jews and Christians.
In moments of insecurity and crisis, shoulds and oughts don’t really help. They just increase the shame, guilt, pressure, and likelihood of backsliding into unhealthy patterns. It’s the deep yeses that carry us through to the other side. It’s that deeper something we are strongly for—such as equality and dignity for all—that allows us to wait it out. It’s someone in whom we absolutely believe and to whom we commit. In plain language, love wins out over guilt any day.”
It is in these moments of crisis that we can lean into our own spiritual practices to provide strength, patience, and peace. What are your spiritual practices? Do you walk labyrinths? Sit in a prayer corner and pray? Draw? Journal? Read a daily devotion? Go for a walk or hike? Do you join a support group of friends and talk? Do you study the Bible with a group or on your own? We have so many opportunities and options for spiritual practices; which one feeds you the most?
This time we are in shall pass. It will most likely lead us to new places and new opportunities for ministry in our life with Christ. And none of us, with the aid of the Holy Spirit, will be left unchanged.